INNOVATE packaging!
SCRUTINISE blanket-ban!
ELIMINATE production!
REDUCE, REUSE! Collect to RECYCLE!
Mr Foolhardy slips over a banana peel. After a few steps he falls again over another banana peel. He gets up and starts walking. On seeing third banana peel he says: "Oh-My-God, now I have to fall again!!!" .... Like Foolhardy, some do love 'falling' followed by getting 'cured' reactively 'again-n-again' than taking preventive 'care'. What should the case really be?
"Pothole kills woman; daughter booked for driving bike rashly"!
The news has been making news on media and the more powerful social media in last couple of days.
The hue and cry forced authorities to take cognisance of the Voice-of-Customer and get back to business of governance.
One of the responses was apprehensive of the (road) "contractors having political clout" which is why the contractors go scot free. "They all do! how else can they charge huge money and yet the roads develop potholes within weeks? govt/babus dont care how long the roads stand quality test as long as tenders are passed and money changes hands!" the response said.
No doubt that the steering is in our hands which should be able to save us ourselves off from the extrinsic hurdles like the one making news above.
But there is certainly some truth in the response that referred to the "contractors having political clout". Many of them do have! The system helps them to do it by design!
It's an open secret that the steps on the corresponding ladder are as follows:
1/ Corrupt and powerful political leaders promote their 'trusted' lieutenants (party workers) as contractors in partnership. This is especially rampant in municipalites and is perhaps the lowest organized entry point for would-be political leaders.
2/ The nexus earns high margins by delivering shoddy work (if at all they do) hand-in-gloves with corrupt Babus.
3/ Both finance themselves handsomely to the next election. You may see gold chains weighing in kilos around necks on various hoardings as an evidence.
4/ Both become more powerful and the cycle continues back to step-1 until the next generation or their kith and kins take over elections. You may see all of them together on hoardings including their "new born ones" now a days.
(Caveat.. There are good politicians, party workers as well as good Babus but very few in millions.)
What do you do now?
The steering to vote them out is still in our hands but it needs to be steered with more force than 'theirs'. Hope we're able to do so soon!
Until then good job done social media for good cause!
"I feel relaxed there".
"I get peace there".
"I go there to connect to God".
Above kind of responses are not uncommon to a question "Why Do People Go To Temples".
Typically, someone goes to a temple.
Closes her eyes.
Meditates on (chants) a Mantra or a prayer.
Experiences that distractions disappear.
Actually meditation done there helps to concentrate on breath. Hence it becomes more rhythmic.
The resulting feel-good effect there helps to connect with one's inner 'self'.
Then why isn't the same phenomenon possible everywhere else other than the temple itself?
A reason may be we don't choose to make it possible at the place/s of our choice. Some make it impossible for their own selves to believe in doing so. We force it on our own selves to believe that the God¹ is present residing in the sculpted idol inside the temple. Or that the God¹ is in the stone neatly installed under a tree where people visit with flowers to worship.
In some cases the story might be that some saint had meditated there in past. So the story-teller begins worshipping the site at times for vested interests of playing politics or making business out of it. Story-teller's disciples continue it. Thereafter passer-bys join the queue and make it bigger. Eventually a temple gets constructed at the site. More the passer-bys, more the story-tellers! And more visitors get added to the passer-bys that leave their trails and tails.
Actually, some benefit does occur in the process. At least some people do visit such places with 'belief' and some with blind 'faith' though. But their good intentioned meditation (even that of a goon visiting) must be helping them clean up their auras that in turn must be leaving trails of positive energy at 'the site'. It is resonance of such positive energies that surely must be accelerating cleaning up of the aura of other visitors.
So, why do I visit such places although I do so rarely. I do visit them irrespective of their origin of place, caste, creed, nationality. It is for the benefit of the possibility of positive auras accumulated there.
But before exercising that option I do consider practising it at my current place of 'being' myself in real-time anytime for any amount of time without waiting for a Muhurta or an agent to advocate doing so.
Footnote:
1/ God I believe is some omnipresent subtle energy of highest nature and level. It chooses to manifest itself in various forms and shapes that an ordinary may be able to (but doesn't) see, touch and feel in the material world around and in the nature itself. God exists there-and-then in the form of 'that' helping person/soul when one gets or gives a Hearty-and/or-Soulful experience in a given moment or situation .
Also read a few relevant blogposts hereunder:
कधीतरी सापडेल का शोधता-शोधता ?
I am afraid ! What do I do !!
Fearful-Of-Death-of-Birth
Do you exercise your choice meaningfully
Do You Ask Right Questions ?
Overworked? Tension? CPU of the mind hung-up?
No Time? Micro-Meditate !
Talk In Order To Listen !
Eternally Happy !
What You See Isn't What's Made
Am I 'Short-sighted' or 'Long-sighted'?
Deity is in the eyes of the beholder
Forgive Or Don't?
Simplicity Of Theory Of Relativity
The Business Of Businesses
Experienced A Delightful Payment !
Beware Of Political-Presentations
Last week just before conducting an audit for Continual Improvement Culture (CIC) in one of the companies in Western India, I asked the audience to self-assess and give a score for CIC at their workplace.
Few participants gave a score of 10%. Few others rated themselves on higher side with a score of 40% although they had just begun attempting the CIC initiative.
I proposed claps for those who rated themselves on lower side. Why? Because their score wasn't to underestimate themselves but it intended to show further scope for improvement.
A headline in Loksatta newspaper reminded me of this incidence. The news reported a minister (in a conference on Change) challenging Gujarat state touted as being ahead of Maharashtra.
How do you think progress of an individual or an entity be measured? What should be the measures of performance to decide who's ahead of whom?
Is it the result or the means to it or a combination of both? The means inter alia may include attitude, continuity and consistency of approach to help achieve the desired results.
If it was results alone then it's the Hare that would always get declared as winner. If it was the latter then it's the Tortoise that would always get declared as winner.
Actually it should be a combination of both. In addition it should include the rate of efforts applied while trying for enhanced rate of improvement. Outcome sometimes may be failures (to learn from) rather than expected improvements per-se though.
If you think this approach to measurement is right then the challenge reported in above headline seems confusing.
If the claim therein were to be right then:
1/ The rate of improvement of infrastructure in Maharashtra should have outpaced the rate of urbanization that of 50% as quoted by one of the economists during the same conference.
2/ The industry scions wouldn't have 'complained' of poor infrastructure and poor assistance by government as reported in the same conference.
Anyway, the point of contention is: isn't it in your own interest to compete with your ownself than with others. Its not necessary to show others down to show ownself up.
If at all one wishes to compare with others it should be with an intention to stretch own benchmarks. It should be to find out how far and how fast one needs to go in comparison and by what approach.
In short, it's good to think and take positive steps rather than otherwise.
It's good to aim at 'sky' as your template of destination. It's better than looking down upon other's garden to show your's to be better and bigger.
Also read a few relevant blogposts hereunder:
Make It Simpler, Rest Will Follow
How To Make A Difference
Big-Be Or Bug-Be !
Treat Root-causes, Not Symptoms !
Nauseous Communication Gaps
Do You Cleanup-After-Crisis
Raam or Krishna-Shyam: Tell me Hey Raam!
Will It Work Here?
Some Moron ! Some Great !!!
That's How Morons Work
You seem Reasonable if you appear Un-reasonable
Smart-Moron Who Breaks Your Glass
WOW Work-Culture: By Telling or Selling
Suggestions On-Sale, None-To-Buy
Can-changing-thoughts-change-a-nation
Ridiculous Poison-culture versus Maverick Kaizen-culture
Tolerate Once, Twice, Thrice?
That's how some business partnerships work
Taken-For-Granted ? You Deserve It !!
Technology in-place, security dis-placed
IQ-EQ-or-SQ: What-is-more-important?
Do you know a Best-Career-Plan
Customer or Custo-Mer?
Experienced A Delightful Payment !
An Experience of Heart-and-Soul
Less With More And More Gets Sore
Should one care for value?
ABCD of India Shining
Beware Of Political-Presentations
Do You Cleanup-After-Crisis
Hoarders Of Filthy Hoardings
At the time of elections they do two things.
One, political leaders make new promises without timeline to their election manifesto. Their tenure is supposed to be presumed as timeline without any commitment from the politicians. Tenure for National and
State level is five years.
Two, they show their performance as 'achieved' without making any reference to measures of the last manifesto: Measures such as what was promised, how much, of what specifications, within what timeline.
It's but natural that fake statements make up for their speeches. They manage the 'show' by 'show'ing sundries such as facades of rail-station's entries, an escalator here, a footover bridge there, etc. They put their 'best foot forward'. No reference to whether that was a priority nor whether it was in the corresponding election manifesto.
Sometimes the projects 'show'n as complete happen to be the ones that were begun during a couple of tenures before the current election. The one that was supposed to have been completed in the first tenure itself, got delayed until the third or fourth tenure and hence became eligible to be 'show'n.
It's like a local train that was supposed to reach destination within a couple of hours but eventually reached after a couple of days. Smart voters do not turn blind eye to that.
However the current politician does take advantage of marketing it as his own achievement. Credit grabbing! Funny part is sometimes out of their enthusiasm they even end up showing pictures of a rail-line of a railway station as 'achievement'. That had anyway been existing their for ages.
Although this might appear to be a bit of an exaggeration that's the way Indian political presentations are; aesthetic than functional. Look at newspaper advertisements and publicity material during election-time if you don't believe this.
What a good presentation be like?
A good presentation should be a no-presentation at all.
Real work doesn't need 'presentation'. The surroundings, the workplace (Gemba) itself and each real-element of the process (Gembutsu) 'speaks' the 'dynamism' of the change in realtime (Genjitsu).
If for instance a presentation is needed for commercial reasons, as a checklist it should contain business like dimensions such as before-after pictures of improvements and achievements till-date, period-to-date (PTD), year-to-date (YTD), month-to-date (MTD), week-to-date (WTD), etc.
Not only it should contain recognition and review of planned versus actual 'results' but also a log of the 'roles performed' and efforts taken during the 'means to the results'. The achievements be compared with promises in terms of productivity and quality-of-life measures, timelines vis-a-vis promises made with corresponding priorities.
I think even a hundredth of candidates won't be able to contest elections if they do so. That's why they don't do so. Rather they make it a 'political-show'.
Story in some corporate houses is no different. Sometimes their 'presentations' are 'better' than politician's ones especially during appraisal times.
Beware: Take a close look at the 'other foot' as well since the 'best foot forward' can be deceptively attractive! A way to do it is believing your eyes than ears. Make deep diving at the real-site (Gemba) 'to see changes' as primary rather than 'hear' presentations away from Gemba.
Create awareness to compare 'what-was-planned', 'what-it-was' with the improved 'what-it-is-now' and 'what-it-could-be' next. And then present it with their timelines and multi-dimensional (holistic) measures.
Bring out vividly 'what-changes' were driven at root-cause level in order to make the change sustainable.
It does motivate, recognise and reinforce desired behavior of the people who matter if one measures achievements with correct reference lines.
Otherwise it's sure to promote fire-fighters while demotivating the fire-preventers: A culture of promoting fire-fighting rather than fire-prevention!
Also read a few relevant blogposts hereunder:
Elections on anvil for voters' will
Aesthetics Spills-Over Function, Want Spills-Over Need (Part-1)
Aesthetics Spills-Over Function, Want Spills-Over Need (Part-2)
WOW Work-Culture: By Telling or Selling
Discrimination-is-Cremation of Law-&-Order (Part-1)
Discrimination-is-Cremation of Law-&-Order (Part-2)
Discrimination Cremated! But How Long?
Can-changing-thoughts-change-a-nation
Ridiculous Poison-culture versus Maverick Kaizen-culture
That's how some business partnerships work
Taken-For-Granted ? You Deserve It !!
Treat Root-causes, Not Symptoms !
What You See Isn't What's Made
Farmer's Suicides is not new to Vidarbha in India.
What's new is newer opportunities and innovations in 'claiming' compensations therefrom.
Few weeks ago a news flashed regarding 73 farmers in Marathwada killing themselves after a freak hailstorm that ruined their crops.
Whether it's a freak one or man-made is a separate topic. But there are strong evidences that this is nature's way to react to excessively unwanted human activities.
It got revived in my mind because of another news I read on twitter today. It was about 334 farmers getting compensated by over 10 million rupees in spite of not having any farm.
The news highlights cozy nexus among local goons, politicians, corrupt officials, other people in power in corresponding departments.
It's actually an open secret. At times a drunkard is worth half a million for such a nexus. Because when a drunkard dies, the nexus conspires. It 'makes' him a 'farmer' who 'committed suicide'. With the help of corrupt bank officials of a small-time cooperative credit society or a bank, it creates fake documents. It gets all other 'documents in order' so that the 'loan' can get compensated and the amount can be distributed.
A research on google will throw light on many such crooked innovations in order to dupe government. Greed drives them for more.
Innovators galore and shining but I am sure investigators are more intelligent and shining.
Will the really affected farmers forgive such conspirators ever?
A MaiKu© hereunder on the topic:
Crooked Innovators galore
Greed drives conspirators for more
Vigilante drives them to shore
MaiKu© Is My-Haiku
Freely ideate it's poetic rhymes
Any objective topic it chimes
Also read a few relevant blogposts hereunder:
Prayer for drought-ridden 10822-Villages
You seem Reasonable if you appear Un-reasonable
Smart-Moron Who Breaks Your Glass
WOW Work-Culture: By Telling or Selling
Suggestions On-Sale, None-To-Buy
Can-changing-thoughts-change-a-nation
Do you know a Best-Career-Plan
Wish To Be Planet-Friendly?: Save!
कधीतरी सापडेल का शोधता-शोधता ?
Treat Root-causes, Not Symptoms !
You Can’t Take It With You, but You Still Want More
Do You Celebrate Mean-or-Green
Aesthetics Spills-Over Function, Want Spills-Over Need (Part-1)
Aesthetics Spills-Over Function, Want Spills-Over Need (Part-2)
Election on anvil
Drives political thrill
Snatches voters' will
With News-mill & Public-life-at-spill
Politicians relish a delicious kill
Without respite to electoral bill
Elections are on anvil.
Elections usually drive political mills that snatch voters' will.
Mushrooming News items drive people's businesses and boost marketing zeal.
It's an opportunity to spill public-life that provides politicians with a delicious kill.
One of the employees of a company I am associated with couldn't get renewal of license done. As a result the material that had governmental controls couldn't be available within desired time. It's operations got affected for over a month.
What is the loss and cost in the process?
Profitability of the suppliers affected.
Profitability of the supply-chain itself affected due to delayed supplies.
Inflation up due to enhanced demand-supply gap.
Reduced income to daily-waged labour.
Above all reduced income to national exchequer itself due to lost GDP numbers.
This is about corporate life that has impact on public-life as well in terms of inflation.
But what about direct hit to public-life due to absence of government staff in offices under the pretext of 'Election-Duty'.
Someone goes to rationing department and finds staff on 'Election-Duty'.
Someone goes to get domicile certificate and finds staff on 'Election-Duty'.
Someone goes to University department to find staff on 'Election-Duty'.
Someone goes to school to find even teaching staff on 'Election-Duty'.
Last year even exams got postponed around the vote-counting day.
Under normal circumstances the machinery at least functions sometimes if you are ready to move your papers yourself from table to table for 'babu's signatures. Under circumstances such as 'Election-Duty', the machinery doesn't function even at snail's pace, that too officially. You may run from pillar to post. It'll all be in vain.
All this at higher cost. Cost of wasted time. Cost of fuel and energy to run from pillar to post. Cost of overtime paid for Election-Duty. Cost of compensatory paid-holiday for Election-Duty.
Not that staff loves Election-Duty for these benefits. In fact they don't. Because they have to report there in-time. Stay there full-time and do work: Search names, make slips, put stamps, take thumb impressions, tally the whole process, count votes, etc. etc. No 'escape' route.
Anyway, why should public suffer at such extra cost?
Isn't there a lot of scope for planning and organising?
By the time we guess so, let's hope that the Voter-turnout improves and the voter votes for corruption-free governance, stability, growth and prosperity.
Here's a MaiKu© i. e. My-Haiku on elections.
Opposition in a nightmare
Over the glass that politicians share
Shaking hands on voter's care
In Marathi
घेउ तूला अन् मला
पण देउ नको त्याला
माथी राजकारणी खलबतं, हाती मद्दाचा प्याला
In Malvani (Konkani)
घेवया तूका आनि माका
पन घालू नको त्येका
दारूच्या गुत्तात राजकारणी सोडीना हेका
©MaiKu Is My-Haiku
Freely ideate it's poetic rhymes
Any objective topic it chimes
Also read a few relevant blogposts hereunder:
Do you know a Best-Career-Plan
Take your career in fast lane!
Succession-Plans In Fast Lane!
Make It Simpler, Rest Will Follow
Raam or Krishna-Shyam: Tell me Hey Raam!
Some Moron ! Some Great !!!
Ridiculous Poison-culture versus Maverick Kaizen-culture
WOW Work-Culture: By Telling or Selling
Today, 26th January, is the Republic-Day of India.
Republic according to dictionary means: A state where sovereignty rests with the people or their representatives, rather than with a monarch or emperor; a country with no monarchy. Sovereignty means: The liberty to decide (choose) one's thoughts and actions. The state of making laws and controlling resources without the coercion of other nations.
So if good laws are made and corresponding procedures are made simpler, leaner and easier to follow then good governance follows.
All like good governance. There are exceptions of a few whose 'living' itself depends on non-governance.
For good or desired governance, voters need to choose (vote-in) deserving and desired people in government who make laws and procedures for governance.
An article on the republic day eve yesterday (the national voters day in India), reported that more than 40% of young respondents between 18-29 years age were not registered yet as voters. Top reason: Process of registration is cumbersome!
When things get difficult¹ to perform, people generally avoid doing the desired. Similarly, unless the process of voter registration is made simpler, prospective voters won't come out to register.
Apart from this, agent's businesses thrive on such difficult processes. Enemies of democracy proliferate. Their premium goes up. Authorities earn 'speed-money' to speed up 'difficult' processes. In the process of speeding up their side income, rules get a passé.
Although at a premium, infiltrators fighting for their survival and to get a foothold in a foreign country go out of their way to foot the bill. Danger of dirty (read corrupt) candidates getting elected gets more likely. Governance getting a miss becomes more probable.
What's the solution?
People-in-power need to make processes and procedures simpler², leaner and easier. But they might take their sweet time to do so.
Meanwhile in their own interest, voters need to take that extra pain to register themselves. And then come out; walk that extra mile to:
Vote For Governance !
Rest Will Follow. In absence of that extra pain, the enemy within and the enemy outside both are sure to gain.
So on this Republic-Day, let's use that sovereign liberty and our choice in order to (as my MaiKu© poem on the subject goes):
Make It³ Simpler² n Leaner!
Rest Will Get Easier !!
Life Will Become Merrier !!!
MaiKu© Is My-Haiku
Freely ideate it's poetic rhymes
Any objective topic it chimes
Footnote
1: 3D: Dirty-Danger-Difficult work is avoided by people. A fire-fighter, for instance, won't willingly jump to fight a fire if he isn't protected by appropriate gears. Unless danger to his life is mitigated, he will not go out of his way to get people out of danger.
2: MISER: Minimize, Improvise, Simplify, Eliminate, Reduce
3: Things under our control
Also read a few relevant blogposts hereunder:
WOW Work-Culture: By Telling or Selling
Take Habits For A Ride
Discrimination-is-Cremation of Law-&-Order (Part-1)
Discrimination-is-Cremation of Law-&-Order (Part-2)
Discrimination Cremated! But How Long?
How To Make A Difference
Big-Be Or Bug-Be !
Treat Root-causes, Not Symptoms !
Nauseous Communication Gaps
Do You Cleanup-After-Crisis
Raam or Krishna-Shyam: Tell me Hey Raam!
Will It Work Here?
Some Moron Some Great
That's How Morons Work
You seem Reasonable if you appear Un-reasonable
Smart-Moron Who Breaks Your Glass
Suggestions On-Sale, None-To-Buy
Can-changing-thoughts-change-a-nation
Ridiculous Poison-culture versus Maverick Kaizen-culture
Tolerate Once, Twice, Thrice?
That's how some business partnerships work
Taken-For-Granted ? You Deserve It !!
Technology in-place, security dis-placed
IQ-EQ-or-SQ: What-is-more-important?
Do you know a Best-Career-Plan
Customer or Custo-Mer?
Experienced A Delightful Payment !
An Experience of Heart-and-Soul
Less With More And More Gets Sore
Should one care for value?
ABCD of India Shining
Beware Of Political-Presentations
Do You Cleanup-After-Crisis
Hoarders Of Filthy Hoardings
Are You Good If Others Are Bad?
In-big-problem? Wear-hats-to-solve-it!
Success-or-failure! What-do-you-like?
Do you exercise your choice meaningfully
Do You Ask Right Questions?
The other day (28th December) Automatic-Boom-Barrier on toll-booth on Mumbai-Nashik highway near Igatpuri 'automatically' fell on our car. Nearly-missed the curse of 'broken-down' high-technology that could have resulted into fatalities. Luckily it didn't fall on windshield. We escaped crisis with a mere dent on top of the car. Whether we get compensated for the mechanical damage or not is a distant 'if-or-but' subject.
But the point worth highlighting is about the costs-of-poor-quality of work or wastes due to breakdowns.
Moving at snail's pace in the 'Toll-Queue' on that Sunday evening around 20.00 hours we ended up waiting in the queue for more than 10 minutes.
I think there were eight lanes with perhaps ten vehicles in each lane.
Couple of booths and hence the corresponding lanes were non-functional. Sitting in the vehicle, I couldn't ascertain whether they were broken-down or were reserved for 'VIP movement'? In India self-professed definition of VIP is anyone creatively sporting a magnetic 'Beacon-light-fixture' or a 'Stand for a color-flag with a black plastic-cover' and sometimes a vehicle carrying 'Bulky and/or Rowdy' personalities in 'Pure-white politician style attire'.
So while negotiating for the 'working' lanes, some kept there engines ON. Some 'started' and 'stopped' until could finally manage to get through the toll-booth.
It's another subject whether the toll-tax should continue or not as per contractual agreement. But one thing is sure that a thesis is not needed if the road authorities choose to brainstorm answers to following questions.
What is the cost of fuel wasted?
What is the cost of delays to various stakeholders?
In order to save the above costs,
why can't the flow of vehicles be continuous by expediting 'Smart-Card-Reader' technology?: It shouldn't be difficult at all to do so across the country in less than a few weeks time considering that India is a leader in software-technologies.
Actually this example is just a representative one that can be extended to all delivery processes: Governance, Social or Business.
Unfortunately Indian leaders are leaders in playing dirty politics in decision making as well. They are 'smart' in record-breaking-speed on decisions related to vested-interests. Also they are 'leaders' in procrastinating (rather placing barriers in) issues of public interests so that the 'starving' public can be manipulated during elections. They are not bothered about such Booms banging over country's economy and dooming it.
By the time they realize importance of using their offices to speedily act on this, can the thoughts in this post trigger each one of us to do something?
Surely yes. One may get some ideas by visiting 'Can-changing-thoughts-change-a-nation'.
Meanwhile keeping my activities On in this direction and keeping fingers crossed.
Looking forward to your suggestions and tips in the COMMENT-BOX below or a Tweet @Shyam Greets.
Digital technology http://care-is-cure.blogspot.in/2017/01/digital-corporate-yoga.html
Technology in-place, security dis-placed http://care-is-cure.blogspot.com/2013/03/technology-in-place-security-dis-placed.html
Encroachers o(w)n open landHow do you behave when you come across security-guard of your housing society? Do you address him "Hey Watchman"?
In what manner do you speak to your driver or that of a taxi or for that matter a persuasive roadside salesman or a typical 'have-not', even a beggar?
Or, how do you behave with your subordinates for instance?
In very first encounter with them in the morning, do you nod as in expressing salutation to them? Or do you ignore their salutation if they give one?
If you've done the former, you have not-taken-them-for-granted. You have behaved as-desired like often done with external customers. Behaving other way round is like being indifferent. It's like disrespecting their self-esteem.
Indifferent behavior hurts ego and thereby breaks relationships. On the contrary a genuine smile recognizes their presence. It flashes back to you as good behavioral reflection of theirs too. It's like an adult-to-adult behavior that maintains self-esteem of both the parties as in BMT or TA language of behavior modulation.
How do you behave if others don't keep promises and instead misbehave with you repeatedly?
In spite of being in power, do you stay considerate enough say to bring facts of their misbehavior and indiscipline to their attention in a respectful manner? Do you play your role in providing justified resources if any to enable their promised performance level?
If yes, then you have not taken them as well as yourself for granted. In inevitable cases you might have even reprimanded them for their undesirable repetitions though.
Former is like 'selling' instead of 'yelling' at them for their undesired behavior while the latter being 'telling'.
If you are not in power what do you do to reprimand their repeated misbehavior?
Such people may not be worthy of attention. Nor are they worthy of your fellowship except that to get job done with Krishna-tactics. Until the first opportunity comes your way to exit relationship it might be a good idea to make a little compromise while keeping them at arm's length. Having got one if it's not availed of then you do deserve to be taken-for-granted.
Aren't the same rules applicable back home?
Yes very much but with an extra care else you may not get food.
Recognition, review, resources, reward and reprimand (5-R) rules are applicable at home as well as at work. Wisdom will help you evolve which ones with what mix and how much dose to administer, when and where.
Those who don't apply a judicious mix of 5-R rules with wisdom (with weightage primarily in the corresponding order) do deservedly get taken-for-granted repeatedly be it at home or outside at work. In Indian scriptures this is advised as Sama-Daama-Dandaa-Bheda technique to get the needed done!
Footnotes :
BMT: Behavior Modulation Technique
TA: Transactional Analysis
Also read a few relevant blogposts hereunder:
Discrimination-is-Cremation of Law-&-Order (Part-1)
Discrimination-is-Cremation of Law-&-Order (Part-2)
Discrimination Cremated! But How Long?
A Ride To Hell
Make checklists your friends
Drove To Hell ... Almost !
Raam or Krishna-Shyam: Tell me Hey Raam!
Will It Work Here?
Some Moron ! Some Great !!!
That's How Morons Work ... WASTES
You seem Reasonable if you appear Un-reasonable
Smart-Moron Who Breaks Your Glass
WOW Work-Culture: By Telling or Selling
Suggestions On-Sale, None-To-Buy
Can-changing-thoughts-change-a-nation
Ridiculous Poison-culture versus Maverick Kaizen-culture
Tolerate Once, Twice, Thrice?
That's how some business partnerships work
IQ-EQ-or-SQ: What-is-more-important?
Prevention: The Best Cure! ... Is it really so?
Treat Root-causes, Not Symptoms !
Beware Of Political-Presentations
Do You Cleanup-After-Crisis
Hoarders Of Filthy Hoardings
How Many Times Do You Wash Hands
Picture-1 & 2: A two-wheeler and a private vehicle is being towed away by RTO authorities from 'No-Parking' zone. This is a welcome move. Towing sub-contractors seem to do their duty diligently since business to them is on piece-rate basis.
Picture-4 gives a perspective. All the pictures were taken on same road on 19 th August at around 14.00 hours within a span of about 60 minutes. 